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هل تعرفون ما هي قصة (ladies first(?????
It is common to hear the expression )ladies first( Women,in particular,daily repeat it is a rule . They actually feel proud of it , unknowing its origin and its real indications . They think it is praise to them , while it is a shame to be said according to its origin .
The story of this saying took place in Italy.It is about two lovers who loved each other so much .They decided to marry, but some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their marriage .They didnot accept this and intentionally decided either to live together as husband and wife,or to die together.
Having done best to achieve the marriage ,they got disappointed. Dying together was the only option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the suiside
Throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to them .The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing her drowing to death in front of his eyes .He convinced his beloved that he would throw himself first and then she would do so later.
In the ruch moment ,the man did it and drown .The lady was looking at him as if he was singing .The man was dead .It was the lady,s turn to follow him to live together underearth, as they decided .But she soon broke her promise ,forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of her eyes and in heart as well.
She came back her home to her relative as if nothing has happened .Few days later ,she fell in love with another man and she was happy with him as if it was her first love .It did not take alot of time till she got married to him .
Since then ,people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying (ladies first )with the implication that ladies should throw themselves into the sae first,should die first, because they are not trustworthy .
It is realy interesting when one hears alady proudly says ;ladies first , thinking that she adds a privilege for bing a famale .Some people ,men and women ,take it as a social rule .unknowing its real indications .
So , it is a matter of respect ,it is not a rule and it is better to be not a rule because it will be a negative respect of women.
Dont worry ladies but may be (ladies last )is better
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هل تعرفون ما هي قصة (ladies first(?????
It is common to hear the expression )ladies first( Women,in particular,daily repeat it is a rule . They actually feel proud of it , unknowing its origin and its real indications . They think it is praise to them , while it is a shame to be said according to its origin .
The story of this saying took place in Italy.It is about two lovers who loved each other so much .They decided to marry, but some social circumstances and relatives block the way of their marriage .They didnot accept this and intentionally decided either to live together as husband and wife,or to die together.
Having done best to achieve the marriage ,they got disappointed. Dying together was the only option. They thought about a number of ways to commit the suiside
Throwing themselves into the sea was the appropriate way to them .The man sincerely said he would not bear the situation of seeing her drowing to death in front of his eyes .He convinced his beloved that he would throw himself first and then she would do so later.
In the ruch moment ,the man did it and drown .The lady was looking at him as if he was singing .The man was dead .It was the lady,s turn to follow him to live together underearth, as they decided .But she soon broke her promise ,forgetting her sweetheart who was dying in front of her eyes and in heart as well.
She came back her home to her relative as if nothing has happened .Few days later ,she fell in love with another man and she was happy with him as if it was her first love .It did not take alot of time till she got married to him .
Since then ,people start doubting ladies and start repeating the saying (ladies first )with the implication that ladies should throw themselves into the sae first,should die first, because they are not trustworthy .
It is realy interesting when one hears alady proudly says ;ladies first , thinking that she adds a privilege for bing a famale .Some people ,men and women ,take it as a social rule .unknowing its real indications .
So , it is a matter of respect ,it is not a rule and it is better to be not a rule because it will be a negative respect of women.
Dont worry ladies but may be (ladies last )is better
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